I'm Peeing Standing Up-what Age Did Your Son(s) Stand and Pee?

Updated on May 13, 2014
J.G. asks from Chicago, IL
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I have a friend that is mom to 4 boys, oldest 11. She told me she has all her boys sit. It sounded like a great idea to me!

Last night hubby decided to have our 4 year old stand and pee. Now, every time he pees, he says, "I'm peeing standing up',

What age did your boy(s) stand and pee?

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K.L.

answers from Dallas on

Mine's training now and he's almost 4... he sat twice and that's it. He pees standing up because he sees daddy doing that..

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X.Y.

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My son will be 10 next week. At home, he always sits to pee. Outside the home he always stands. My husband also sits to pee at home and stands outside the home. This is something my husband has always done and I am sooooo grateful.

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J.A.

answers from Indianapolis on

I suppose I don't see the point to having an 11 year old sit to pee...

Do your friend's kids have a dad or a male role model?

Men pee standing. The boys need practice.

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K.C.

answers from Philadelphia on

My son doesn't stand and pee. He sits. He's 16. Actually, my husband rarely stands, too, at home. And I'm super happy about it. You know how much cleaner the area around my toilet is because of this?

Men are fully able to sit to pee. They stand for THEIR own convenience (and culturally, they've been taught that "men pee standing up"). As the housecleaner in the family, I'm thankful my men can help me out in this small way.

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

3.

Does your friend's 11 year old son, still sit to pee and does so wherever he is even not only at home?

I guess, having the boys sit to pee, it reduces the amount of stray pee sprays/dribbles from getting everywhere on the bathroom floor if the boy can't aim straight in, the toilet?
Is that her reason that she has all her boys sit to pee?

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S.G.

answers from Grand Forks on

My boys potty trained when they were three. They probably sat down for the first month or so before they practiced standing. We do a lot of camping and hiking, so standing to pee is a very useful skill.

My boys have very good aim and do not make a mess when they use the toilet. Some of their friends are not so skilled in the bathroom, and I feel like asking those to sit to pee when they come to visit because I do not like wiping their pee off of everything.

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P.K.

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22 months. Decided he was going to go like my friends sin who was a bit older. Trained himself for the most part.

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E.B.

answers from Beaumont on

3! Mine never sat to pee.

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K.C.

answers from Los Angeles on

My son potty trained the week he turned 3. He sat to pee for about six months and started standing around 3.5 years.

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C.M.

answers from St. Louis on

Around 4. And I taught him sitting down. He just chose to start standing up like dad!

X.O.

answers from Chicago on

As soon as they're tall enough to do it, or to use a stool without being afraid of falling.

V.B.

answers from Jacksonville on

He began (like you mentioned) sitting... but eventually transitioned to standing, when pottying was not something "new" to him... so around 32 months or so. It was a few months before he turned 3, I know for sure, b/c he dropped the seat on himself and I had to take him (while extremely! pregnant) to the ER to get checked out.

Word of warning (not just for you, but all moms of boys): If your son's "parts" are not several inches taller than the edge of the toilet bowl, make him use a step stool if he stands to pee. I can't tell you how many other parents have shared the same type story with me, that it happened to their son, too. The boys get in a hurry, go running into the bathroom, yank their pants down and fling to seat up.... out comes their thing and BAM-down SLAMS! the toilet seat. It can actually do vascular damage, not to mention it hurts like a MF#$*#@**
Trying to hold a naked, bawling almost 3 year old when you are 9 months pregnant is a bit ... awkward. And trying to strap them into a car seat with that sort of injury is NOT something you want to find yourself doing.

Have them use a step stool. Just do it.

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J.W.

answers from Chicago on

The only way I could get my little boy to potty train was teaching him to pee standing up - with the little Cheerios in the bowl so he could aim. That was the easy part at 3... "Just like Daddy!" He would say proudly. Getting him to poop in the potty was a whole separate issue and took much longer!

S.T.

answers from Washington DC on

my boys (sons and brothers) ALL stood to pee, right from the gitgo.
i don't get making boys sit to pee.
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N.P.

answers from Chicago on

I teach the boys sitting in my daycare then after they are proficient in that for about 4 months then I show them to do it standing up. I bought a urinal (Peter Potty on Amazon, but I got mine at a garage sale) for that reason. My husband does not stand to pee out of courtesy to me.

If I have a boy that won't put down the lid I have resorted to duct taping the ring to the bowl so they can't raise that part.

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K.C.

answers from Richmond on

Only when toilet training did my son start off sitting on the potty and toilet (18mths) and only because at that age sometimes both things happen at once and they arent overly aware of whats going to come out!

I never considered getting him to wee sitting down though once he was toilet trained. Men are supposed to wee standing up so it sprays everywhere and makes a huge mess arent they?!?!?!!

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J.K.

answers from Wausau on

I can't really remember an age and they are too old now for my involvement.

That said, I did I recently threaten to start enforcing the sit-down pee for all men in this house; including their dad. I've found pee on the toilet seat and floor one too many times that no one will confess to doing. :-p

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L.O.

answers from Chicago on

My son only does that in the public bathrooms. If it has a stall door, he won't.

He's nine, and well, it just makes sense to him this way.

I've had my friends boys and husbands try to explain it all(single Mom here), and he decided on his own how he wanted to accomplish this, and I back him up(much to the dismay of certain friends).

I've had teachers try to discourage it when he was in Kindergarten, and I told them to only lay out facts, and not scare tactics, and he made his own choice.

Just my 2cp.

Good luck to you Mama!

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