Hello!
I just wanted to throw this out there...
Have you ever considered a midwife instead of going with a hospital? We went with cmh for our first born and the experience was fair even though most of our friends had a pretty good experience.
Our 3 daughters there after were born with Karni Seymour-Brown, a midwife in Ventura and I must say I would never ever go back to a hospital birth ever again. Aside from the fact that she is highly knowledgeable, she is warm and supportive, open to all your needs and wishes. She not only takes care of you during your pregnancy but also does all the birth and after care. Furthermore she will visit you in your home to check on you and the baby and then again once your milk comes in. She is available 24/7 for concerns, little scares, or moral support. She is a consistent and calm support I wish for anyone.
Do yourself a favor and at least meet with her to be open to the option! :)
I love her!
http://venturamidwife.com/
:) congratulations on your pregnancy and all the best to you!!
-C.