Is My Baby Getting Enough Milk/?

Updated on September 28, 2008
M.M. asks from Fredonia, NY
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I am mom to a dd of 9 months old. She has been developing wonderfully accept for her appetite...which has been since birth. She is a small baby in weight and now in height too. Sh eis starting to walk already and talks her gibberish and one word syllables all day long. I exclusively breastfeed her still and she has started only taking 3-4 meals in a day from me, on top of 4 (usually on the very small side) meals a day of solids. The issue is when she is breastfeeding she isn't taking very much from me...for example not both breasts or leaves my breasts still feeling full after feeding. She gets fussy quite often at the breast, would rather be playing instead, and this has been pretty consistent for the past few weeks now. She is also teething up a storm for her top teeth. She does poop and pee throughout the day. I will pump in the morning if she didn't finish the feeding and I can get about 6 oz. or more/less depending on how much she drank. She will take a sippy, but she has to be absolutely starving for it if it contains b-milk or formula. The opposite side she will willing take juice half with water with almost no problem. So I guess I really don't know how much she is getting to drink from me while breastfeeding because she will only take no more than 2 oz. of the sippy or Adiri bottle when she is very hungry. Has anyone else had this problem, and should I just relax being that her development is right on, she is not sluggish, is sleeping well, and not to worry about her getting adequate amount of milk?

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Okay...phew I do feel better having read your responses. When I went to the ped. for her 9 month appt. the other day he definitely advised me to keep breast feeding. Personaly I have my ups and downs with breastfeeding, and what seems to keep me going is my little ones persistence to only drink from the breast over a bottle. The doctor also suggested not to give her any juice too, because he said it is an equivilant to junk food. I only use 2 oz. a day mixed with water to keep her regular. This breastfeeding job is definitly one of the toughest things I have ever done (since she is so demanding and erratic in her feeding patterns)...hopefully the next baby down the road will be easy the next time around...but I do enjoy our time together nonetheless!!

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M.N.

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It sounds like you have plenty of mild - good for you! I also have a 9 mios old girl and she has gone through short period of not wanting to breastfeed as much - either because she is too busy or teething has set her off. Try picking her up from her nap before she fully wakes up and nursing her. When baby is sleepy she is more likely to nurse. At night I have also woken my baby up before I go to bed to nurse her if she did not nurse well before then. She is half asleep and will nurse. Just be consisitent and persistent. Offer the breast often but don't force. And I would avoid the juice for now. Or if you do give it to her no more than 4 oz per day. I also think it is a good idea to offer the breastmilk in a sippy cup or bottle as well as mix it in her cereal or food - that way you know she is getting as much as possible. good luck! Don;t give up - you will get back into a good pattern I am sure. Some will tell you she is trying to wean herself and this may be true but more often than not I think it is just a phase and you can get back on track.

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A.M.

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sounds like she is fine as long as she is on her growing curve, no matter how small she is, as long as she is not dropping drastically. and also, with being so active, she is going to slim down. i would make sure to offer her as much BM as possible, and think you are doing great with the pumping. that will keep your supply up and also maybe have a freezer stash. i would def not wean her anytime soon. if she isnt eating tons, the best thing you can do is continue the BM, milk is not nutritionally comparable.

the only thing i can suggest, is to really try to nurse her in quiet settings mabye with white noise, or you reading/singing, try to nurse her before food(BM should still be her main source of nutrition, the solids should only be complimenting), and to just keep trying. also i would highly suggest to take the juice out of her diet. it will fill her up with instead of BM, it is the number one reason children have cavities, and she will develop a preference for juice and not want other drinks(BM, milk, water). there is no need as it will be much better to offer her the actual fruit. good luck

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D.R.

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i think it sounds like she is doing just fine. if the doc isnt worried about her growth and she has plenty of wet diapers through the day and is eating fairly well balanced meals, i wouldnt worry. also, remember that she is a much more efficient nurser now, she gets more milk more quickly. unless my son is nursing to fall asleep, he often gets full in under 5 min, and just one side. he is a snacker, and he is much too busy as well. and if you are pumping after the feedings, that would explain why your breasts still feel full. remember its supply and demand, (actually demand and supply) so if you are demanding more, you will supply more. just remember to finish the first breast first, even if it means finishing the other one later, since the milk at the end is the fatty hind milk. if you are stopping to switch sides while you are still full, she isnt getting the hind milk, which she needs for brain development, as well as to stay full longer. be sure she finishes the first one, and if she wont drain both, just start on the other side next feeding. also, be careful of engorgement and/or clogged ducts with what you are doing. i always think its great to have a stash in the freezer, but if you are pumping regularly at the same time dont stop suddenly, especially since she is taking lots of solids now, its a time to be careful of getting clogged ducts.. try not to get too far ahead of her, know what i mean? i think it sounds like you are doing a great job, mama :)

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M.T.

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Hi M.,

One of the beautiful things about breastfeeding is that the baby takes as much as he or she wants. Knowing how much your baby is taking doesn't make them healthier or mean that you can control their intake. Your baby knows when she is hungry and full. I would be sure to offer the breast before meals if you are concerned about her intake, so that she is getting milk on an empty stomach.
Good luck!

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H.G.

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I think your little girl sounds like she's doing great! She's deciding what she wants and needs, and you're doing a fantastic job of listening to her. As long as the doc isn't worried about her growth, then relax and enjoy the awesome job you're doing. :) If she's always been small, then she'll probably just continue along that % on the growth chart.

She really does sound like a happy, healthy, bright little peanut!

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J.C.

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Hi M.,

I didn't read any of your other responses, so I apologize if this repeats what anyone else says....

Babies sometimes wean themselves from the breast. My two children did. At around 8 months they just were not as interested in breast-feeding. Almost like they were ready to evolve into more advanced drinking.

It sounds like this is the case with your daughter.

Good Luck!
J.

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