A.M.
Congratulations N.! If you know anyone that lives in Grand Haven I recommend their facilities. I was blessed to have one of my showers there when I was pregnant with my son. The location is beautiful, the staff is outstanding, and my husband still raves about the food.
If you don't know anyone that can get you into one of the local clubs (Italian American, etc.) many of the churches will rent their "fellowship halls" for a very good price.