I live in Logan Twp, NJ. It is in Gloucester County, just over the Commodore Barry Bridge. The school district is amazing. 1 of 2 best in the county. And...our taxes are LOW!!!!! There is a lot of businesses (in business parks) in the township which keep the taxes really low. Logan Twp includes an area sometimes called Beckett for the developments there (where I live) just off exit 10 of 295, Repaupo & Bridgeport. Between these 3, I think you'd be able to find something in your price range whether you try to buy or rent. The "beckett" area has townhouses, small single homes to larger homes & some of them are for rent. Where I am, I can walk to the supermarket, a couple of small restaurants & an Applebees, an old fashioned ice cream shop.
The school has a great before/after school program too so your daughter could stay there until you get home from work & it is not too expensive considering some of the alternatives.
There are 3 big daycare centers in the area as well as 1 church run one. At least 2 of the big ones & the church one run summer camp programs which I assume you might need.
I work in Philly & my drive is about 40 mins. Not crazy but...a little bit of a drive. But...with all the industry here, you might be able to find work closer by. My husband also works in the city now & he drives to Del Cty to grab Septa to ride the train in. That is about a 10 min drive for him to the station.