I have to admit, I have been really lazy ( about my own diet and exercise) after each of my pregnancies for the first year or so, then I just try to focus on walking with the kids in the stroller, and try to manage my portion sizes and make sure my plates are 1/2 veggies and 1/4 meat, 1/4 carb - with some healthy fats (fish, olive oil, avocado, raw nuts) thrown in.
I got up to about 195 pounds with each of my full term pregnancies, I am only 5'2" tall. In my personal experience, I would automatically lose about 20-30 pounds right after delivery, and then my body would slowly lose down to about 150, and then hang onto the rest as long as I was breastfeeding, like an "insurance policy" in case there was a "famine" I would still be able to feed the baby. I could only really lose the last of the weight after I ws done nursing - we stopped at 9 months with each of my 2 babies.
After the first, I started to do the Michael Thurmond's 6 Week Body Makeover eating plan http://www.mybodymakeover.com/?entryurl=http://www.bodyma... at 9 months, and lost 14 pounds in the first 2 weeks( got just under 140!), but then got derailed by (oops) becoming pregnant again right away. I had a miscarriage about halfway through, but unfortunately kept the 12 pounds I had gained. I got pregnant again 8 months later, and this time after I stopped nursing, I forgot to stop eating so much, and I have actually gained weight back after stopping nursing. I was down to 150 while nursing, but now I am back at 180!! YIKES!
I am so tired of being tired and overweight, trying to keep up with a 3 year old and 1 year old....I am starting the T-Tapp workout http://t-tapp.com/ next week when my DVD's get here, and I am trying to watch my portions and ratios of which food s I am eating....it is really hard with these two running around! With the Michael Thurmond plan - which workes wonderfully when you DO IT, I have to eat 5-6 mini meals a day, and the amount of cooking and prep is just too overwhelming for me right now, but if you cna find a way to do the prep ahead of time, it really works, even just the eating plan, without the 15 minute a day resistence workout and hour of walking. it is all customized to you when you get the program, you take a 180 question multiple choice test to determine your metabolism/body type, and then the foods and resistance exercises are specific to your metabolism and problem areas.
I would reccommend a combination of both T-Tapp and Michael Thurmond's 6 Week Body Makeover, that is what I plan to do once my T-Tapp DVDs get here.
Good Luck!
Jessie