D.F.
Hello Prissy,
My name is D. and I don't believe it's wrong to belong to two different churches but at the same time when you say that you go to gatherings with your daughters in your home town and out of town, are these the two churches that you are in fellowship with?
When we say membership, what does that really mean? I believe it means that you are committed to the "vision" of that particular church and its' leader (pastor). You are committed to following all of its by-laws and mission statement without hinderance.
You would have to think also about how this may affect my personal walk with the Lord. Does one church teach differently than the other or are they both teaching good sound doctrine according to Jeremiah 3:15 which reads, "And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding."
You then too have to ask yourself, "why do I love both churches?" Is it because of the word of God that I'm being fed? Is it because I can feel the presence of God when I'm in the midst of the believer's? When after I've left the assembly do I know how to continue in my quiet time with God that there may be a building of intimacy between myself and my Father in heaven? Or is it just because of the gatherings that my daughters and I enjoy the most?
There are more than one question you must ask yourself, again I don't believe that there is anything wrong as far as I know with being a member of two churches. But I do believe that maybe God is wanting you to come closer to Him and look at Him and love Him more than these two churches.
This could be why the question has come up within yourself, I believe He's wanting you to get with Him more often and to get to a place where they (the pastor) is really feeding you the meat of God's holy word and in turn helping you to draw closer to Him as your one and only complete source.
Be Blessed and I hope this helps