Hi A.,
I am a full-time mother, as well as a full-time student. I can tell you that it is possible - but the way in which it is possible is different for every family. My husband (God bless him!) works 2 full time jobs, so that I can be a full time mother and student. That may not be possible for your family - which is why I say, it is different for every family. Because my husband is always working, he can't watch our daughter while I go to class and I refuse to put her in any day-care type setting, so I attend online college. I have already earned my AA in Psychology and am currently working on my BS. As long as I am at home going to school, I will also home school our daughter. But when I go back to work (degrees in hand), my husband will quit one of his jobs and my daughter will go to school and we'll juggle life in a more traditional way. Meanwhile, this works for us. I know that I wouldn't be able to do this without online school, so it is a Godsend for me and because you're schedule is already so hectic, may be the best option for you too. The only problem is that online colleges are a bit limited when it comes to being able to offer hands-on training (for obvious reasons). The professions you mentioned all need hands-on training. So I would recommend that you pick the thing you most want. Are you just looking for a degree, or two? Do you need a change of career, if so, which one do you want? No matter your answers there, research that field. Make some calls and see exactly what you need to get it done. The next step is figuring out a way to make it happen. I won't lie - it is a family affair. You're family has to support you and help to make it happen. When I have finals, my family is super understanding. They know that for that time, being a Mama and wife has to come second. My husband steps in and handles things while I am working on my finals and then I am able to take over again when I am finished. During regular class time I am able to juggle the house, our child, my husband and the other things that come up - usually without a problem, but you should expect an adjustment period. It won't just fall into place over night. BUT, and this is so important, it IS possible. You just have to decide how much you want it and how hard you are willing to work for it. I have stayed up until 2-3am writing essays for the next day, but so far, it has always been worth it. The day I got to hold my AA in my hand and see my name on it, it erased all my struggles to get it. I think holding my BS will have the same effect. And maybe my Masters after that. :D Good luck to you and write if you have any questions.