D.R.
D.,
For marriage counselling - if you're an 'online' person - go to rejoiceministries.org. It's a Christian based ministry that focuses on marriage restoration. They have a tremendous amount of material online, tapes and book you can order, a daily devotional email, a newsletter etc. You can also call them and they are wonderful people. I was fortunate enough to live close to Pompano Beach where they are based and attend their weekly bible studies, but there is also a lot of 'help' available for free or little cost from their web site!
Good luck!
Hugs!
D.