Raising teen girls going thru puberty gets very challenging. But it does get better. My daughter is now 14 and has somewhat leveled back out. Their bodies go thru hormone rush months before their first period and then gradually the levels come back to normal. Kinda like us going thru menopause except the reverse. I was seriously thinking that aliens had taken over what had been my very sweet, loving, level headed daughter! I just tried to be as patient as possible and I prayed A LOT !!
There are some good books on raising teens. If there is anything else I can do to help...a shoulder to cry on :) just let me know!
C.