K.F.
Well, my baby is almost 5 now so it's been a while, but I think I remember those sleep deprived days, through a haze anyway :-). What I did was start with the bassinet beside my bed (for my convenience). I ALWAYS put her down there first. When she woke up fussy, I'd pull her into bed with me. Then if I woke up later and she was asleep, I'd move her back into the bassinet. For naps, she always went into the bassinet or crib. Eventually she started staying there longer and longer. Hopefully someone will give you advice on getting him to sleep longer, that I DO NOT remember. Good luck! You have my prayers as well!