After reading the other posts, it seems like I'm the oddball on this :O)
I understand your frustration......however, at the same time, if I were to ask for more daycare for my child, then I would expect an increase in rate.
Perhaps you caught your daycare "off guard" and in the middle of chaos when you told her about the change? This could cause anyone to not respond properly..........
I think you should just tell her that you didn't realize adding another morning would cost that much and it's not going to work for you afterall. Tell her what you ARE able to afford, and see if there is something that works for both of you.
You might just have to back to the 2 mornings a week.
I know that some daycares have to "hire" more staff for extra busy days. They need to follow state rules of some kind having so many personel there for a certain amount of kids Perhaps your added morning needed an increase in staff?
Try not to get all upset, I'm sure there's a simple explanation for it. Yes, maybe she didn't handle things perfectly, but it's difficult to say because daycare's are always so chaotic......
To be on your side, $400 does seem a little high for 9 hours a week. I'm sure there is a misunderstanding on her part. Just ask her :o)
In todays times, business are only trying to keep the business that they have, and not lose any........let's try to give her the benfit of the doubt until you approach her. I would call her first, to schedule a meeting. You don't want her to be "distracted" when you talk about something so important.
Good Luck!
~N. :O)