E.D.
My son never spiked a fever, or showed ANY sign except he wouldn't eat and cried when I would lay him down when he had raging ear infections. The doctor and I would be astounded. None of the "normal" signs ever applied.
It sounds like an ear infection to me.
Never apologize for taking your child to the doc. YOu are the mom. We are rarely wrong about our own children.
HUGS!