HI L.,
I've delivered at both with in the last 3 years. Each has their good points. Looking back i felt the total experience was better at Hamot from my perspective.
Labor and Delivery Rooms were nicer at St V. Nurses were better at Hamot. I would say nurses were Outstanding At Hamot.
I had my own recovery room at St V but the food was bad and it was hard to get a nurse. Not great when you are starving and need help to use the bathroom every half hour. Big Plus was having a shower in my room at ST V's instead of wobbling down the very public hallway at Hamot.
My husband thought the nursery attendants at Hamot were better, but we really didn't use it alot, preferring to have both babies room in with us. Also, St. V's has a full time lactation consultant and offer breastfeeding support group meetings adn a hot line if you have trouble once you get home. Hamot also has a lactation consultant who was soo sweet and kind, but when I delivered she only worked part time and was very hard to reach after I left the hospital. Little hint, you don't have to deliver at ST V's to take advantage of the support group or the hot line. Just call Ask a Nurse or the main switch board at ST V's.
And finally, I pray that you never need it but we found the NeoNatal unit at Hamot was fantastic. My son was premature and spent 2 days in the NICU. It was terrifing but they were so gentle and fabulous to us that it made it all bearable. I don't know about St.V's
This is all just my opinion, obviously. And probably to some extent the way the nurses treat you is probably dependent alot on how busy they are and just luck if you get nice ones or not. I would recommend calling the hospitals and scheduling tours so you can compare them for yourself. You might be able to get some info off their websites too. I'm assuming your Doctor deliverers at both hospitals? Have you checked to see if your pediatrician has privelages at both?
Good Luck to you! And please let me know if I can help with anything else.
Kristi