Hi G.:
Well, thats a switch...Usually men are regular (Energizer Bunnies)when the woman is pregnant.Since it was usually you taking the lead in your sexual encounters,in the past, I'm sure this isn't a total shocker for you.While us women go through the normal ups and downs during pregnancy. Morning sickness, feeling exhausted,cramps,back aches,the common worries of our unborn babies, and wether we are taking good enough care of ourselves.We still have the need,and desire for love and effection. As a matter of fact,its vital,during times like this, when we are feeling vulnerable,and emotional,and afraid we have lost our sex appeal.Our men need to be more attentive and reasuring during this time.I think, your husband needs to go to your next gyn. apointment. You need to speak to your Dr prior to him seeing your husband, and ask him if he would please reasure him, that it is not imperitive,nor healthy to refrain from having sex for 9 months!Regardless of how endowed men think they are,they are not going to poke the baby in the head!! To answer your second question....No it does'nt get better right after the baby.You'll be exhausted, and busy caring for the baby,your four year old and waiting on your husband. Sex will then be the furthest thing from YOUR mind. lol Give it time,it will come.(pardon the pun.lol