Hi Julie,
My husband and I have looked at lots of options in Fort Wayne, and haven't settled on anything since our kids are 2 and 4. We currently live in FWCS district, and have NO desire to send our kids th FWCS. :) Moving doesn't seem to be in the cards, either. However, "private" schools is a broad term. Obviously, if you're catholic, you're not likely to send your kids to a protestant school, and vice versa. Also, what your priorities are for your children makes a big difference. For us, our kids are well ahead of their peers academically, so the academics is what is most important to us. Because of that, if we could choose any private school in Fort Wayne, it would be Canterbury, hands down. However, the price is ASTRONOMICAL (over $12,000/year starting in kindergarden). They do have financial aid, so we haven't ruled it out, but we aren't sure they would offer enough to make it feasable for our family. Currently, our second choice is actually a Christian school in Auburn (Lakewood Park Christian School). We know several teachers and at least one board member, and it sounds like a great school. They are about a year ahead academically from the public schools, and they give high schoolers the opportunity to take college classes for $50/credit hour. I also know several students - even high school students that really like their school. That sure says something about it! Their website says they charge $3-4000/year.
Our third choice is to see how Imagine Master Academy does. It is a charter school, so it's free, but this is its first year, so we'd like to see how it goes before making a decision. Also, it will be a lottery to determine who can attend because there are more applicants than open spots.
Obviously, living SW, traveling to Auburn would be quite a drive. But, it gives you food for thought on what to consider as priorities for your kids' education.
My suggestion is to make an appointment to tour schools you're interested in - while classes are in session, and meet teachers and administrators. Ask for references. Maybe even talk to students. Ask questions like retention rates, test scores, and discipline issues. Things like that should give you a good idea of what kind of school it is, and if it would be a good fit for you.
Good luck in your decision! It's hard, isn't it?? :)