S.W.
No food that normally requires refrigeration but is left out all night should be eaten! This is risking serious bacterial illness. Sorry, but it needs to be thrown out.
I don't know what's up with men about this, but my ex was/is the worst about food safety. Then he gets really mad if you tell him you can't do that.
Here's a link with tips and rules: http://life.familyeducation.com/foods/safety/36570.html
It says "NEVER defrost perishable foods (meat, poultry, fish/seafood, dairy, eggs) outdoors, in a cold room in the house or on the kitchen counter."