Morning,
My oldest son, who is now 17, had severe ear infections when he was young just like your son. I had heard so many negative stories about the ear tubes so we decided not to have them put in. Instead, my pediatrician recommended he be on a low dose of antibiotics on a daily basis. I was worried that would make him resistant to antibiotics later in life but am happy to report this has not been the case.
The lose dose of daily amoxicillan (sp?) worked beautifully and he eventually grew out of the ear infections.
Now this is interesting, when he was 3 years old and time to take him for his first dentist visit; after the examination the dentist said to me, "oh, your son had severe ear infections didn't he?" I replied, "how do you know that?" He then showed me how his back molars were disclored and and were not the same shape as the molars on the other side of his mouth. Interesting!
Oh, one more thing, due to the extreme pain the ear infections caused, the doctor also perscribed liquid codiene to give on those ocassions.
Good luck,
C.