M.M.
I always did the following with my boy's teeth:
I get the over the counter oral gel (for pain relief) maximum strength, apply it liberaly to the Q-tip, apply the gel around the tooth, keep wiggling it, look on the inside side of the tooth - it will start to get pulled off the gum - apply more oral gel to that spot. Keep doing it and you will eventualy pull the tooth out. A little messy, a little blody, but not that painful because the oragel does numb the spot.
Good luck!