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My son was born with a cleft lip and palate 6 years ago. Go to widesmiles.org and cleftline.org (I believe I got those right). They are wonderful resources and taught me a lot. Most states have a clinic group that does cleft. My son still goes once a year and sees his surgeon, an ENT (who happens to now be his ENT), a pediatric dentist, speech therapist, a geneticist (we didn't see her after the first time) and a social worker.
My son is doing great and thriving. He just had his 4th and hopefully last surgery this past fall.
If you have any questions send me a pm. However don't worry if you don't hear back from me for a few days as I am not on here daily.
Good luck : )