http://www.conejo-childrens.com/
I love this practice. Though I don't know if they follow your # 1 criteria (follow up on the latest research - I would assume they do, but you could always ask if they attend conferences, etc..)
The wait times are not too bad. Most times I am waiting! Though recently I wasn't (maybe it was early in the day.) But I don't mind because it's such a lovely office. The staff is very friendly. The doctors are very warm, kind, approachable. My children love going. Dr. Donna Pachorek switched from another practice (which got too busy, popular for her) and bought the building. It's right off the Ventu Park exit (I'm in Westlake, so it's a bit of a little drive for me) and you'd be very close. She is so gentle and slow with exams and always asks the child permission. When I had my 2nd child (daughter) she did a house call because I had a homebirth and didn't want to drive anywhere. My 3.5 year old daughter LOVES her partner, Dr. Antall (he is the father of 3 girls) and she whines to visit the Dr. when she has a cold or is "sick" just to see him.
The office is beautifully designed. Other offices I have been to seem like a dump. This place is not. I recommend visiting both offices, interviewing them and go with your gut.
BTW, I send out e-mails of local events of interest to Conejo Valley families. Send me a message if you want to receive the e-mails.
WOW - I've never seen Dr. Natalie Rubin (i was apprehensive b/c I didn't know her) so I'm glad to read the review. That's 2 recommendations for Conejo Children's Medical BTW. :)