Seeking Counselor on NW Side of Chicago

Reacting in different ways to what? You didn't say. Problems with who's feeding the Baby? Things like that? What? Jeanne Elk Grove Village, Il

A., I feel your pain. 9 months after my daughter was born I couldn't drive by an "apt. for rent" sign and not think how great it would be to take my daughter and leave my husband of 8 years. We were married for almost 8 years when she arrived and were very used to our independence and not used to having to consult each other on every issue like packing a diaper bag. My "words of wisdom" here are; do find someone to talk to like any of the counselors listed here, know that if you are not in depression that by 12-14 months it is much better, and that you may each have to learn to let it go a little when making joint decisions. Don't know if this helps at all good luck.

K. (Lincoln square mom)

Hi A.,
I'm a practicing therapist, but in Evanston. To find someone close to you, you can check the website for your insurance company for a listing of providers or try psychologytoday.com. There is a free search feature to look up a therapist by zip code. Feel free to contact me if you need more info.

J.

I live in chicago (near southwest side) and have a 5 mos. old son. There are definitely a lot of adjustments that occur going when going from childless to "with child". Your whole life schedule revolves around the baby.
What exactly are you having a hard time with?

M.

Hi A.
I am Not sure where you live but I had the same problem when i had my son I was so overwhelmed that I was thought i was losing it.
So I went to my doctor and she sent me to talk to the social worker She is wonderful she listens and there is no judging she makes me feel okay about how i feel about things. I will give you the number and try her I promise you she can help. The number is ###-###-####. Her name is Gwen Haywood.
Good Luck

Hi A. (thats my daughters name)
I live on the NW side too & I specialize in resolving women's issues through hypnotherapy. You can visit my site at www.lilibetancourt.com for more info or email me with any questions. ____@____.com
If you prefer a traditional therapist I highly recommend Gale Dreas or her husband Tom Brennan at 2500 W. Farwell (West Rogers Park area) ###-###-####.
I would be happy to answer any questions you may have about either option.
Wishing you much love & wellness.

Hi A.,

I'm responding to your request. Take a look at my website,
www.richardkatz.org, feel free to call me.
I do coaching and counseling.

Sincerely,

R. Katz, Psy.D.
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Bernadette Gaffney at 1300 W. Belmont is fabulous!

email at ____@____.com

I am a counselor practicing in Schaumburg and I specialize in women's support, which includes postpartum support. Having a baby changes your life and you can feel unprepared for the emotions that come with it. Many mother's feel judged by others when they share the difficulties that they have had. I have found that some counseling, even if for just a short time, can help a new mother get the support that she has been needing to get through this new and different situation. Please feel free to contact me at ____@____.com or visit our website at www.owenscounseling.com.

Finding a therapist that works for you is soooo personal. Psychology Today (the web magazine for the American Psychology Association) has a good "Therapist Finder" seach engine. The therapists give their bio and their approach. They also list if they take insurance, which is helpful. I'd start here, pick 3-4, then make some calls and see who sounds like a good fit on the phone. Good for you to get some support! It's tough!!
http://www.psychologytoday.com/
click "find a therapist" on the left hand side

I worked 4 months after the birth of our first son, now 4-1/2. It is sooooo stressful and I went for the antidepressant. BIG MISTAKE. Stay away from chemicals if you can. Read Ekart Tolle's A New Earth. Share the housework responsibilities with your hubby, get some you time like getting a manicure once a week(or every other week). If you have marital issues, seek a family counselor. If you are not getting the rest you need to be a happy mom, your life with baby won't be happy. Is baby sleeping through the night? Once mom is happy and calm, baby will be happy and calm. Yoga, deep breaths.... meditate... no joke it all helps.

Hi A.,

I completely understand that you and your husband have a new life that you are adjusting to.
It can be challenging and very rewarding at times.

I am Certified Life Empowerment Coach.
All coaching sessions are held over the telephone so you can call from any location at a time that works with your schedule.

There are fundamental differences between coaching and therapy, and different times in your life when you might want to call on either of these fields of expertise.

You call on a therapist when you need help resolving deep personal issues, and understanding and processing emotional needs and feelings. The focus of therapy might be learning to function more fully in life based on a healthier emotional/mental life. Therapy will often focus on your past in order to create a better present.

You call on a coach when your life is fully functioning, but not at the level you desire. You are ready not only to make significant change in your life, accomplish specific goals, and manifest dreams, but also to experience major transformation to catapult you to a whole new way of living.

Coaching is all about standing in the potential of your amazing future and calling your life into this new reality.

I would love to speak with you further at your convenience!

Danya
www.DanyaMotivates.com