Until I read your story, I didn't know it had a name to it. The doctors didn't seem to know either, kept saying he was constapated. My son will be 5 in May, we have tried everything, I am so sick of poopy underware.
This started shortly after he bagan to walk because he had gotten constapated and it had hurt him to go, so no matter what we did it wouldn't work either. My mother-in-law- sent me an artical from her newspaper, it said each morning take all clothing off your child, put him in the bathroom and tell him he must stay there until he poops, each day it will get easier (no fits) and within a few days he will be going on his own. This man who wrote this has never meet my son, it's not going to work, already been there.
So my son had not gone for about 3 days, and knowing it could go on till he was so sick from not going that he was throwing up and not eating, I went to the drug store and got a box of
Fleet Babylax liguid suppositories ( these things are great) after dinner we let ourselfs relax for a while then we went into my sons room (my husband was a big help) I layed a large towel on his bed, had him take off his pants and underware, I explained to my son I was going to help him feel so much better, I was going to give his bottom some medicene that would make the poop just slide out, all he had to do is lay there and be still, then popa would lift him up and carry him to the bathroom. When I started inserting the little thing in him he started wimpering, but through the whole process as hard as it was for us we never lot our temper are threatened him, it was hard but we stayed claim, my husband leaning down on one side of the bed and I on the other telling our son a funny story. as soon as I was done ( it only took a couple mins.) my husband picked up our son, carrying him like a baby, I think he said our son was a rocket ship coming down to earth , landing (being sat on the tolet) and now dumping it's used up fuel. We walked away, a bit, and the next thing we heard, was, Look mommy, it came out, Boy did it, then he was done and we praised him, telling him how good he was and how wonderfully happy it made us that he went poop in the potty.
This was not a quick cure, by all means, but it was a start.
Our rule is he can't wipe or flush till we see it.
So for a few days all was good, then we went right back to where we started. Altogether we had to use the Babylax 4 times. But the problem started again , I have a bucket of poopy underware in my tub socking and I am so fed up I didn't know what else todo except to buy stock in Babylax.
My husband who is always home first with my son, started noticeing a pattern, at 4pm or so he would catch David trying to hide and hold it in. So now everyday at 4pm David is sitting on the tolet pooping. He crys and asks why, and that it sticks in the bathroom, he wants to use the other one. He is told the reason he has to sit on the pot is to poop, the reason it smells is because of the bucket of poopy underware, that are his, within 15 mins. he goes now.
So this is what is working today, yes we even had him washing out his own underware, all we got from that was a mess.
These little guys are funny the way their brain works and explaining to the is so hard, But don't give up some day it will just click and it will be like he never had a poopy pair of underware.
I would like to hear more from you about you progress, maybe we will be able to help each other and our sons.
Good Lucj
R.
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