I also like the Mother's day out preschool on Old Kempsville Road. My son cried for a while as I'm a stay at home mom, and just didn't get used to it...They made me feel very very good about leaving Aryan in their care, and that if he was stressed out during the day, they would let me know and I could take him out. But We signed up for next year at 3 days! He likes it so much he asks to go back after I pick him up.
Here's some other schools I've heard great things about: 1) Salem Methodist church (Salem Road, Virginia Beach), 2) Bethel Baptist Church (Elbow Road / Chesapeake, Virginia) 3) London Bridge Baptist Church ( London Bridge area, Va Bch).
there's also a catholic preschool that my friend is now sending her son to this year, and she's very happy about their lessons throughout the year. Apparently they add science and have lower teacher:student ratios. Salem Methodist also has lower ratios! :)
Good luck!
B.