A.; if you are a stay at home mom or if your not its ok to keep nursing him when he needs it, if he needs the comfort of you he might just need that, after all, we give them what they need, and to just take that away is hard, its also hard to have a young one latched on to you literally for a long time, however, when you do give him the bottle, what is missing ? you are! do you hold him while he has a bottle, take the time to feed him as if you are nursing, hold him as if you are, and then give him a bottle, its ok if he still wants you , that should make you feel good, enjoy the time he does, i know of a mom who nursed for 3 or 4 years because the young one wanted it and expected it, i know a bit long for me too, but in the older days, before bottles were invented, they nursed for longer periods of time, be there for him, when he needs you , he may not need to nurse, but might enjoy you holding him and watching him eat, may be the comfort, nurse if you have to, if you really need to let him go, its ok too, just be there too, enjoy life, and what a wonderful priviledge, to have a young one still wanting to, some of mine left off early and it makes you feel unwanted and you cant do what is right, either way , you are proving to be a good mom, keep up the good work, D. s