P.L.
Oh,
I feel for you! I'll pray for you too.
I dont have any great advice but keep dropping hime off. Are there other activites you could do at the church where you would have to drop him off? Like a women's Bible study with childcare or??
Maybe you could find a mommy's day out program or a MOPS groups? www.mops.org Any kind of mommy group with childcare so you can drop hime off more often as practice and he can see that yes mommy will come get him in two hours? Are you friends with your neighbors? You could try dropping him off that way too.
My daughter went through a whole year got better then a couple more months of not wanting to stay in childcare at church. I just kept dropping her off. She's 5 now and "used" to it. When she was 3.5 our MIL gave us this trick for winter time. It worked for a little while. We went and got a cute pair of gloves and I gave one to trinity and would tell her that mommy's keeping the other glove and that when mommy comes back to get her we'll have a pair! Yay! Your son may be too young to grasp it but it may be worth a try.
Also for when he's a bit older a book about seprartion thats good is The Kissing Hands(i think thats the title) about a mommy and son raccoon.
Good Luck!!!
pammy