My husband and i couldnt wait long either, i had an emergancy c-section with my first boy (and couldnt have sex the last 4 months of my pregnancy b/c of bleeding), and a repeat c-section (we did it until the night before i went to the hospital to have him) with my second. we were told to wait 6 weeks, but we couldnt we just waited till i was done bleeding and carefully continued, at the first pain we stopped, when my dr. asked at the check up i was scarred to answer him truthfully but i did anyway and he said well then i guess that is fine as long as it doesnt hurt and you stop as soon as it does, he also told me to use some ky since after a birth some people have a hard time to lubricate. it is different for everyone, i personally dont see anything wrong with it like my doctor told me comman sense if it hurts stop if it doesnt hurt continue. Good Luck!!!!!