Hi J.,
I work in sleep research. My suggestion to you is to keep a sleep diary for about 2 weeks. Write down when your child is awake and when she is asleep. Keep track of medicines if any (time taken and what has been taken). Also, keep track what she is eating and when. Also, does she get really hungry just before bedtime? This could be significant also.
I would also keep her away from any electronic stimulation (tv, computer, etc) before bedtime.... which it sounds like you are already doing.
After accumulating this information, I would take it to your pediatrician.
Another thing, when you go into her room, does she know you are there or is she in her "own little world?"
If you have any questions, please feel free to send me a message....
Best of luck...
After reading about all the people writing about night terrors.....
I see that many people are talking to you about night terrors. I didn't bring that up, because for one, you don't want to scare someone and two, it's better to start w/a sleep diary to see if something else could be causing anything. Anyways, I'm going to give you a little brief explanation of night terrors and nightmares....
Night terrors
Child is aroused after a long period of delta sleep (slow wave/deep sleep NREM-awakening from a non-dream state). Most night terrors occur at the beginning of the night (first 1/3 of the night), when your child is in a deep sleep. They will wake up disoriented. It generally happens during the ages of 4-12, more in males than females, there is no treatment and they generally outgrow it.
They will generally wake up screaming and looking around wildly, be disoriented and frightened (they may look like they are looking right through you) and they may not be able to communicate with you. There is generally and increased heart rate and they appear flushed and sweaty. Generally after about 15 minutes, they will fall back to sleep. With night terrors, they can not remember the dream that aroused them. Will often happen 1-2x/week.
YOU DO NOT want to wake a child up if they are having night terrors. You should try to protect them from anything that could harm them, and if you can, try to get them back to bed. BUT DO NOT WAKE THEM!!
Nightmares
They generally are awoken from REM (dream state) and they can recall their dream in vivid detail. They generally do not have an elevated heart rate, are not sweaty or flushed and can fall right back to sleep.
Generally happens in ages 2-3 and then generally they diminish, but they could go on into adulthood. (Those who have life long nightmares may also have another psychiatric disorder as well).
From what you originally wrote, it sounds more like she is just getting the better of you, but you never know, and that is why I suggested a sleep diary and good sleep hygiene (standard bedtime, no tv, etc....) Also, having the sleep diary, you have something to take to the doctor to say hey....this is what is happening and here is her routine for the past xx weeks...can you help me....do you see anything abnormal...etc.
T.
37 y.o. mom of 3 boys 12, 9, and 4. Married to my best friend for 13+ years. Work fulltime in healthcare (sleep research) am a free lance photographer, and sell southern living at home for fun!