J.B.
If you don't get an epidural they won't need to give you IV fluids and should only hook you up to a fetal monitor for 30 minutes every couple of hours. If you get the epi or need pitocin you are stuck in bed. Just make sure you talk to your doctor about how you want your labor to go and get her feedback. If she or he doesn't agree with your wishes you might want to interview some other doctors. You could get a doctor or a midwife, they both preform the same function. If you would like additional support from someone consider hiring a doula. She will be there for your entire labor and coach you thru it, help you get as comfortable as possible. If you are interested in having a home birth then you would need to go with a midwife, and also consider taking The Bradley Method childbirth classes. They will definetly prepare you for a natural birth in a hospital or a home birth. From my experience, if you truly want a birth free from monitors and people trying to give you meds or instructing you how to push, go to a birthing center. I have heard wonderful things about Labor of Love. Good luck to you, feel free to e-mail me with any questions.