No, how terrible for her to have to see you with your legs spread and the doc putt his inside you and pulling out stuff. This is why they make programs like Mother's Day Out. SO mom's who stay home and don't have any friends that will babysit for an hour or two will have someplace safe for kids to go. They can go one day, one day per week, 2 day's or even all 3 days per week. Just so mom can go shopping like an adult and take her time without a child whining and crying for every little item on the shelf.
It is so nice for SAHM's to have some place part time and safe for their kids to go for a few hours and play and have fun.
She needs to go to a friends house, MDO program, cancel the appointment until school starts again, etc...that is something no child needs to experience.