Hi, for what it's worth I found myself in the same situation I had 3 the 2 older ones were 10 and 8 and I had a 10 month old and found myself unexpectedly pregnant with #4. We (my husband and I) DID not want another child!! We were actually arguing over who would get snipped when I found out. We thought we were being careful, but things happen. With us though abortion wasn't an option. Throughout my entire pregnancy my feelings were mixed about the baby, I wasn't as into that pregnancy as I was with the others. I couldn't even bring myself to really shop for him content just to use the hand me downs from my older son..then when he was born everything clicked. I am now the proud mom of 4 children the two older are girls the 2 younger are boys and I couldn't be more blessed :) I HONESTLY can't picture my world without my little surprise baby. He completed my family. Oh and for the record after he was born no arguement my husband went and got snipped!! LOL