M.L.
All I can say is so sorry!
It reminds me of the Friends episode where Rachel took a a pregnancy test but was too scared to look at it. So Phoebe look at it, and she told Rachel it was negative. Then Rachel got quite and kind of sad, because all along she didn't want to be pregnant, then when she found out she wasn't she realized it was what she wanted. Well, then Phoebe said, "just kidding it's positive' and Rachel was so happy b/c then she finally realized how she felt.
I know that's random, but it seems like a lot of people go through those emotions they never knew they had. It's perfectly normal to feel conflicted and sad.