Both my kids stopped eating the jar stuff at about 10 months - they preferred the table food too...
Feed him whatever you and your husband eat - just cut it into small, pieces. Steer clear of gassy or spicy foods for now, but make what you give him small, baby-sized portions!
Examples:
If you're eating fajitas - give him tortilla shredded up, cheese, lettuce, etc. possibly even the meat in tiny, shredded pieces.
If you're eating meatloaf - give him a little of the meatloaf crumbled up so he can eat it, mashed potatoes, steamed carrots cut into little dices.
Other good ideas:
Regular oatmeal
Cheerios
applesauce
cheese - shredded
peas - steamed
broccoli - cut/diced and steamed
chicken - cut and shredded
chicken noodle soup
Pancakes cut into little pieces and sans syrup
toast
crackers
any fruit you can cut into little, soft pieces
Stay away from:
nuts
grapes - unless they're seedless and cut into fourths
hot dogs - or cut into diced pieces - very small pieces
In today's current budget crisis - it is more manageable on your budget to have kids eat a version of what we cook for ourselves than to spend an arm and leg on toddler food anyway. Think about it, you get more mileage from a box of cheerios than you do a can of "Puffs" - not to mention what you'll save on with jar food if you don't buy it at all! The canned fruit aisle will have fruit already cut, plus the big containers of applesauce that you can just dip out of and put back in the fridge! Saving $$$ is always good!
FYI - My dad tried to give my son a chicken leg to chew on when he was a year old and I freaked out, but evidently that's how it was done in the old school - not my style though! lol!