A.J.
Both of my boys right at the 9 month stage went straight to table food. I did and am breastfeeding, as well. My 2.5 yr old didn't want to have ANYTHING to do with baby food. Unfortunately I can't remember what I did exactly with him in terms of how much he ate etc. Each baby is different, but my 2nd son is all about porking out! He loves to eat
He's 10.5 mth old is about 22lbs and he eats pretty much everything we eat (except milk & citrus stuff). He gets 3 meals a day & 2 snacks. And I give him a 4 oz sippy cup of water that lasts him all day. I pretty much just nurse him before bedtime & naptime. Days where he eats more table food during the day are the days, I found he nurses a lot more at night :)
For example this morning I gave him a small bowl of oatmeal, peaches and toast with fruit preserve on it. Snack he had a few puffs & ritz crackers. Lunch he had some banana bread I made, avocado, peas & yogurt. Dinner he had a modified burrito (legumes still give him gas) shredded cheese, whole wheat tortilla torn up, olives, green peppers and mushrooms..weird I know, but it was pretty good.
Usually he loves everything I give him. There are a few times where he saw what we were eating and threw a hissy fit. We had spaghetti the other night. I just gave him plain noodles & meat & veggies. Apparently that wasn't good enough. He wanted it with the sauce. So I gave in and devoured it. He was in heaven. Although, he did break out in a diaper rash from the sauce.
I say just go with the flow, and make sure he doesn't have any reactions. I asked my ped if I should be feeding him this much. He said feed the poor kid, if he's hungry. Always go with their lead. So I did and its going great. Good luck there is no one perfect answer, just what works for you and your LO!!