D.P.
Ask your daughter what he like--sports, Star Wars, video games, etc. There is no "set" toys for a kid on the spectrum. That's a little stereotyping. Find out what HE is into...it's not going to be the same as other kids on the spectrum....just like all kids, they have interests as varied as they are. My son is not autistic but he's into sports, cars and NOT into Star Wars or Super Heroes.......if all else fails, a gift card to a toystore would be great. My son just had a b-day party and got a cool electronic dart board.