Working Mom Dropping a Pumping Session.

Updated on May 21, 2009
M.J. asks from Vista, CA
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I would really like to hear from other working moms who pump or did pump. I started out pumping 3 times at work up until 1 year. Then I dropped one session, and it worked out really well, since pumping at work is such chaos. Daughter didn't seem to notice. After a month I dropped a second, so that I only pump at work at midday (1pm, actually). Daughter had no problem. This was going really well for us, and by 14 months we were doing morning feeding, pump/feed 1pm, bedtime feeding. Lately, though, she hasn't been drinking the bottle I send with her to daycare (it's only 3oz at this point -- or less -- that 1pm pumping). So I tried dropping that session over the weekend. Saturday she didn't notice. Sunday she seemed fussy, and I felt a little sad. The question is, were we just not ready to drop this one? I'm debating whether to try pumping at work today, or just follow through with dropping this session. Anyone have a similar experience?

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J.F.

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Hi M.,

It sounds like the natural progression of things. For both of you, there will be some adjustments and emotions, including sadness, as you slowly give up what was once the most predominant form interaction and nurturing you shared and move on to other ways of nurturing and experiencing life together. It will be okay....talk to some other moms and friends who've gone through it....read about the process here and on other mom-related sites... and you could even journal about the experience. For those who found breastfeeding to be a very positive experience, there are almost always mixed emotions during this period. It is normal, natural. You're doing a great job!

Best to you and your family,

J.

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L.C.

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I just dropped pumping during the day at work and only breatfeed in the morning and when I get home. I dont pump at all anymore. My doc said that after 1 year that babies should be getting their calories from food not from breatmilk anymore. During the day she drinks water or formula. Hope this helps! Email me for more questions..I am just going through all of this now...

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

I'm just wondering if you milk output, is diminishing?
When she was fussy... was it when at your breast or via a bottle? If it was when she was at your breast... maybe your milk output was not as it used to be? Thus, she senses this?
Or maybe, she is just naturally weaning and does not want to be at breast? This can also happen... my son was like that.
Or, is she at the breast and seems frustrated... or is she ACTUALLY drinking? If she is actually drinking and you hear her swallowing, then she "is" actively nursing.

Observe her cues... and maybe she is self-weaning?

By now as well, she must be drinking whole milk? Does she drink from a sippy cup as well, or only bottles? If she is not drinking breast... she should be drinking whole milk since she is 14 months old. (or oh yes, my son was on Formula and milk at this age).

Also, sometimes babies seem fussier during feedings, because they are teething. Or, they sometimes act this way because they are ill.

But then too, every day can vary... and when having growth spurts, a baby can have more of an appetite. At about 15 months old, is a growth spurt time.

Breastmilk output is by supply and demand... if you cut out feedings/pumpings your body will adjust to that... and weaning will occur.

Do as you feel best... but also try to figure out why your baby was fussy on Sunday... taking in 3 oz. or less at daycare is not much... so I would imagine she would need to be drinking other things like whole milk. Or, maybe it is because she is too full to drink her bottled breastmilk, especially if she is given solids first, then her bottle.
Does your daycare give the bottle first or after the solids? This too can make a difference...

well just some ideas,
all the best,
Susan

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R.S.

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Just drop the pumping session, not the weekend nursing. Go to www.motherlove.com and order a 4 oz bottle of More Milk Plus. Take 4 drops for every 10 pounds of your weight. so, if you're 100 pounds, that's 40 drops. Take it EVERY morning and on the weekends afternoon and night. In a week or two, your boobs will have gotten used to their new feeding times. Hang in there!! Nursing is SUPER important!!

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