J.,
One thing I have learned with my 2 boys is that fevers can matter and that fevers can be nothing... we call them mystery fevers. The general concensus I've found with doctors and other professional advice (grandparents and friends don't qualify as pro advice in my book... too many old wives tales and 'the way it used to be's') is that a fever of 102 or less is of little concern unless there's obvious pain... like a sore throat or headache. Fevers are our way of fighting off infection. If the fever reaches 102, treat with Tylenol or Motrin... I prefer Motrin. It works faster and longer and is an NSAID, so it actually treats PAIN as opposed to just blocking pain receptors.
Anyway, if the fever doesn't respond after an hour or so to pain reliever, contact the pediatrician. I have always found they say to give a little bit more of whichever med you've given already or give a dose of the other. We always have Tylenol and Motrin (or Advil) on hand and have frequently given both. Even a fever of 103 for a little one isn't a reason for panic necessarily. My boys have had severe ear infections and strep throat with less than 102 and nothing but a mystery fever at 104. KIDS! They'll always drive you nuts.
Other things that help... like you said, strip her down to help cool her off a little quicker and also a cool, wet washcloth... nothing to shock the little body like throwing them into an ice bath... stupid advice I've received on more than one occasion! Just some non-medical interventions like cooling them down with a cool washcloth and, if you can, having them drink some water, suck on an ice pop, etc.
Good luck with your little one and pending little one! I'd definitely recommend you let her doctor know about the fever, even if it's gone. They will reassure you one way or the other!
Good luck J.!