R.R.
Hi S.,
This is my opinion, this is about respect. My husband use to have the same problem and I didn't know about it, until I was pregnant with our first child. I was beyond hurt and angry that he liked looking at other women online. In my opinion this was cheating in our relationship.
I gave him a choice, cheat or respect my feelings. I was not going to stay married to someone who felt my moral views were no big deal.
Other people may think this is no big deal, all he is doing is looking. Personally, looking online is opening the doors to other thoughts and desires. We live in a society where issues about sex, drugs, drinking is fair game, divorce is like nothing.
I think people in relationships need to be respectful of each others feelings. If what your 7 yr. boyfriend is doing is hurting you and harming the relationship, he needs to be a real man and stop this behavior.
Please, stay true to yourself. Sincerely, R.