Hi K., the main thing you need to remember, is brushing isn't an option, just like changing diapers, it has to be done. I work for a pediatric dentist, so I see a whole lot of "my kids won't let me" results. Before I worked for the dentist, I let my kids brush their own teeth, they had a few cavities over the years, not many by any means because I was alway having them brush their teeth. I started with having them brush during bath time, then every morning and evening. It was good dental habits persay. But I didn't help them. If I had, they wouldn't have had the few cavities they did end up with. Now I have a grandson, who hates having me help him, he's 2 now, so we battle every night. But its worth the fight. He also has a couple teeth that don't have the enamel they should, so all the more reason to help him. With being a parent, you'll learn to pick your battles, teeth are worth fighting over. I'd love to say it will get easier if you keep pushing, but for my stubborn headed grandson, we still battle, even though he brings me his toothbrush and toothpaste every night. I think he thinks he's supposed to yell. He also has breathing treatments each night, his lungs didn't develope when my daughter was pregnant, so that doesn't help matters either. Best of luck, don't give up, that little smile is counting on you to keep it healthy:)Sue