J.H.
Welcome to the land of small, chubby feet. I'm 57 and can wear a 3 1/2 girl's and some 5's for the width. I like New Balance and they carry my wide size. Here in Austin the only store I can find is Karavel and they really like them so I can only get a new pair once or maybe twice a year. The only dressy shoes I've found were in an antique shop and my grandmother's shoes. It runs in families. My dad wears a boy's 6 1/2, he's 83.