M.L.
This conversation happened a lot over Thanksgiving, but by doing some things with the crockpot it helps with the oven strain so you don't have to go all cold. Maybe along with the cold items, serving a warm chilli with shredded cheese and cornbread would be super yummy too, I think it would still go with the other things you mentioned. Maybe some other ideas to include, a fruit try, some fresh salsa/guacamole and chips, deviled eggs, a bowl of baby dill pickles. For the ham, I read for 10 people, that a 7-10 lb ham is good. You can make this delicious cheesy, potato, ham chowder soup the next day with leftover ham!
http://littlelovables.blogspot.com/2011/01/smoky-corn-and...