I have been attending Eastlake for about 3 1/2 years. My kids love it there. It is such a great loving environment for them. It warms my heart when my almost 4 year old asks every morning "is it a church day"...
That being said - the best way to make close personal connections is to join a growth group. These are small groups that meet once a week for a 6-8 week period. The groups can be book studies, sports, philanthropic activities - there really is something for everyone. The next session of Growth Groups starts at the end of the month (sign up starts this weekend).
Even without joining a Growth Group, just by attending you will be amazed at how quickly you feel like part of the family. The teachers will know your kids, your kids will make friends and you will chat with others when you pick your kids up. I didn't join a Growth Group for the first year (always had the "too busy" excuse) and still made connections - but once I did, I loved it and haven't missed a session in over two years... I should have joined one at my first opportunity.
I recommend checking us out again... sign up for a group that interests you (there are usually a few family ones as well each session)... and enjoy...