I turn 42 in 6 weeks and just changed careers. I have always been in the corporate world with a huge salary until I had my first child 12 years ago. When he was born I went freelance and for 10 years made a great living working from home. The last couple of years though have not been as great so I had to get out there and decide what to do with my life. Frankly, I am just tired of my years in the pressure cooker of deadlines and clients and spending $2300+ a month on daycare for four kids is just crazy.
Long story short, I have found a career building a professional income working a few hours a week and still home for my babies.
I did not go to school and rack up more student loans. I have a degree that I am proud of but it really does not work outside of my industry. I just do not have the desire or the resources to spend more on education right now, especially since I will be dishing out for a college education for my kids here shortly.
Good luck in your search. You will figure out your match and NO you are not being a princess. Just focus on finding something that works for both you and your family. There is nothing like the stress of a bad job match integrated with the people you love most.