D.H.
Don't give up! Companies are still looking for good stable people and offer good benefits!
Why are you getting negative comments from loved ones? Are they negative people or do you need to spiff up your look or attitude a bit? Just keep looking professional, behaving professional and network and go on as many interviews as it atkes to get the right job. Get a new professional haircut and business attire if you need to.
Don't make a rash decsion-pray about what is offered. If you are involved in a church-let your Sunday school class and staff know that you are looking and what your skills are. If not, still send out an email-not whining-just stating facts that your are looking for a good stable job and would appreciate if anyone knows anyone looking.
Blessings-pray you will find a great job soon!