T.M.
My sweet sister,I have seen all you have suffered in your life with this and also everything in your past and I don't understand why you have to under go so much hurt especially after you do so much for everyone,I have seen you raise two wonderful and handsome boys,you have also done so much for my family,when you care for elderly people you do more then you need to, you go the extra mile, you do more then is required, when it comes to work.I've seen you care for all of Gods' little creatures,you will even give your shirt of your back to anyone who is in need.Maybe this is why it so hard for you to end this relationship,but sister this is enough.I frankly, don't understand what your waiting for or what you are wanting to happen, I don't understand how much more you can take from this man, look sister let me just bluntly say,this man will not change because he's so comfortable where he's at right now. So what makes you think that he is going to change, don't you see that he'll change for a week or two but then he'll go right back to the way he was and that's because he likes it there.Now, I'm no expert but heres what you should try.This might sound a little crazy,I really believe that everyone should try this, at least one time in their lives, when they find themselves without a solutions to their problems, it helped me look at the whole picture to where it made me change my direction.I really think God allowed me to experience this so I could re-valuate my life situation. You need to have a outer body experience. I told you it's sound crazy but just do this, it's like yoga, go to a quiet place, close your eyes and don't think of nothing else just zone everything out, with your eyes still closed and take a good look at yourself, look at the w-h-o-l-e picture and ask yourself,these questions,does this look like something that I'm willing to live with for the rest of my life,is this what I want for myself and is this how I valve myself? Sister tell yourself, I work so hard all my life, I deserver better, this is not what I want. All our lives we strive to get what we want in life,for example when we look for a job we want the best job ever, a good paying job, so we could live comfortable,and in order to do that we have to have a good education,so we work hard for that, now there are those who want to get everything the easy way and in your man's case that's what he wants, don't you see his pattern? Sister in your case you work hard so you deserver better.We all strive to have a happy life and we all ask are saviour to help us with that but we also have to help ourselves. Don't let this man bring you down,because he is doing this to you,I see how unhappy you are in your relationship, so you need to end it, this has gone on long enough.Valve yourself,you deserve better. You have earn it sister,get off that ride he's taking you in, it's not a pleasant ride,your not even enjoying it, I can see it in your face.I will pray for you,sister and I will help you through this. You work hard and you have earn a better life especially after all you have been through.I love you,very much.
