Just wanted to share a sex talk tale with you. I have two...now grown...daughters and had thought about this topic quite a bit before the opportunity...time came...to sit down with them.
The talk with the oldest daughter ended to my delight with "Oh! I can see how you wouldn't want to have sex with someone you weren't willing to be with for the rest of your life."
I had decided to give them the basics to start and only go further if they continued to ask questions. We had touched on anatomy, menstrual cycles and possibly confusing emotional changes, intercouse and protection from sexually transmitted disease.
Well, the success of this "talk" left me totally unprepared for the course that the talk with my youngest would take. Once I finished my basic talk with her...she came back with, "Can I have sex?" Then, "What if I do?" - "Do you still have sex?" - "Can you draw me a picture of 'having sex?'" I honestly don't remember my answers after that first one...I just remember moving my beer to the other side of the table and suggesting that we go to McDonalds for a Dip Cone! Distraction accomplished! Whew!
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