Hi Ladies!
I'm J.'s friend - thanks SO MUCH for all the advice! Our son turns 6 weeks on Friday :) I'm just looking online now (very little computer time with a 5-week old). A little background is that the spitup/sometimes-vomit is constant throughout the day, but seems to calm down a little at night. His weight gain is slightly on the low end, but still in normal ranges. We have been working with both the ped and a lactation consultant.
The main problem is sometimes he gets so fussy and uncomfortable that I want to cry along with him - we can only hold him until it passes it seems. I know it is the reflux because he makes this grunting noise and I can see the milk coming into his mouth (even when it doesn't come all the way out). We want to avoid medication if possible but I don't want him to be in pain every day.
We went to the ped last week. We have a PPO (so no referral needed) and she did give us the name of a pediatric GI specialist. She suggested putting him on rice cereal before trying a prescription, but: (1) I'm concerned about doing that at only 6 weeks, and (2) we only feed pumped breast milk from the bottle 1-2x day.
Here are the things we have done so far:
-we burp him often
-We keep him upright as much as possible. I breastfeed on an angle, he sleeps on the basic wedge available at Babies R Us, with a blanket underneath when it is obvious reflux is striking (we purchased the Tucker Sling/wedge combo but he doesn't like it), we hold him upright for at least 30 minutes after feeding, and I bought the Moby Wrap so he can nap upright and close to me (my back has just got to get used to it).
-we were giving him Gripe Water, which does seem to produce burps, but plan on stopping because it doesn't seem to be helping with the reflux. His poop has a green tinge to it since we started the GW a few days ago, so I want to stop for a few days and see if the GW is causing it.
-We tried feeding small quantities at more frequent intervals but this has been hard - he is pretty insistent on feeding until he is full and lasts between 2.5 hours to 5 hours between feedings.
My next step is an elimination diet. I know dairy is a big offender, but I've been resisting giving it up because it is my favorite. Now that I see how much luck some of you have had, I will definitely try it!
Our baby went to the chiro at 4 days old, but we haven't been back - mainly because it is so hard to get him out of the house! I'm taking him back in tomorrow.
A few more questions I have:
1. For those moms whose children responded to eliminating dairy, soy, etc. - have your kids been able to reintegrate them into their diets, or is it a permanent sensitivity?
2. For those who have been on meds - are there side effects I should worry about? Long term effects?