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We go skinny dipping after the kids go to bed. =)
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After 12 years of being together and 2 kids my husband and I still have a good sex life. We are both mutually attracted to each other and enjoy being with each other. On the other hand every once in a while we get into a routine regarding our sex life. Same time, same day, same place. Spontaneous is hard with two kids and crazy schedules. But every once in a while we do get the chance to act spontaneously and have a little fun. For instant, tonight it is raining - something to celebrate where we are. We decided to make love on our deck in the rain. The kids crashed early, nothing else to do. Our backyard has an 8 foot privacy fence so no one could see anything. Things like this don't happen very often but I like that our sex life can still be fun. What are some things you do to keep your sex life fun and spontaneous?
We go skinny dipping after the kids go to bed. =)
We don't really do spontaneous or quick, like you we too have kid(s). What we do, shopping. He looks at pretty things for me to wear, I have quite the collection. We also do bit of Role-play, I have a few costumes too. We also have "toys". I'm unfortunately limited in my flexibility so sometimes we need to be creative with the "basics".
that's so great that you guys can do that! We have been married for 10 years and normally it is great. But, my husband recently started working grave shift at work and so we don't really have time alone. Ever. He sleeps all day and then wakes up at 4pm. The kids go crazy and want to play with him and then he leaves for work when right when they are going to bed. So, we really don't have any alone time. We are trying to find a babysitter so we can go out on a date though. It's been FOREVER since we were able to go out. We are totally in love and he is my best friend and we do flirt through texts and stuff but we just can't get the time. Before he went to this new shift, it was around 3-4 times a week. Trust me, this new shift really sucks :(
MZ Kitty, good for you.
Get a Karma Sutra game for a walk on the wild side. Get the book "101 Nights of Great Sex". It just gives you ideas and suggestions, and is fun.
Good luck to you and yours.
Since we practice Natural Family Planning, and we are currently avoiding pregnancy, we anticipate the infertile days so there is plenty to get worked-up about in the waiting ;)
