I don't know what your history is, but I thought I would share my experience with birth control pills. I am a huge fan of them if they work for you, but personally my husband and I had to come up with a different plan because the hormones involved in birth control pills kills my libido, my Dr. told me it was normal and not to worry, but my husband and I realized it was a problem when 3 months would pass and we hadn't been intimate.
It's not for everyone and requires a lot of work and research, but we now use natural family planning or fertility awareness which involves charting and recording all your fertility signs and then we find alternative ways of being intimate when we are trying not to conceive. personally for me it has made a huge difference in our lives and I feel 100% better and more in the mood more often. I actually pursue for the first time in years. Another pro for it is that you learn to recognize signs of cervical cancer much sooner then someone who doesn't chart. A concern for me since my sister has had several cervical cancer scares.