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I have the same problem you do. The pill makes me super-moody, super-hungry.. and leaves me no sex drive whatsoever. We used a diaphragm and spermicides when I was nursing.. but it's only considered about 80% effective. I just recently started Nuvaring, and I really like it. My doctor said that with the pill your hormones go up in the morning and then level out by the end of the day... with the ring.. they kind of go up at the beginning of the month, but then level out. Because the ring is in your vagina, you it doesn't have to have a lot of hormones to be effective.
The only thing I dont' like, is that I still don't have much of a sex drive... but we've decided it's worth it. The other thing that stinks is that our insurance doesn't cover it. So, it's about $40 a month.
Good luck!!